As you call it.

Sitting in front of my one-in-all box (also called computer by others), I was playing one of my favorite strategy game fervently in full swing, when my home mobile (supposed to be mine) jingled in its own violent tone. “Ah! A forward.” I thought as I paused the game and checked it. A miracle! Abhinav (of course name changed) had messaged me,” free?” Curiosity started killing Venki and he replied immediately,”yes what da?” I guessed he wished to say something as he confirmed this three or more times before asking me a silly question,” My friend girl proposed to me. What should I do? Am confused. What would you do if you were in my state?”(Try answering this if you wish…chuckles.) Seriously, I was unable to tell him anything then gave him a part of idea which was met with thanks. Phew! What is going on?

Is it that serious an issue to be considered? Isn’t this what happens during the so called teenage? Is this where our society is leading us to? Unwanted thoughts (I prefer not to use the terms) during study years completely desecrates him and makes him useless. This is may be just a fun game for some, too serious issue to give the A grade preference for some or else to just shrug it off and dust it off from shoulders for the rest. I seriously do belong to the third category. Seriously, I believe that you become able to decide about ‘them’ once you start working for your meals. I laugh at the thought that once I too had some stupid troubles and my one of my sweet friend had to put it deep into my brain that I must be knowing my priorities( KNOW YOUR PRIORITIES! DECIDE YOUR LIFE! YOU ARE THE ONE TO DO IT! ). Well, once you get to know what this stuff is all about I don’t think the problem would arise again and if it does, it becomes so easy to push it in the back part of the brain and concentrate on the work at hand..

This sort of feelings is nothing more than pure hormones (I do have to prove that I am a biotechnologist!!). The magic is done by just chemicals: testosterone, oestrogen, dopamine, norepinephrine and serotonin etc.

Let these be aside. Let us consider that ‘A’ has some special feelings over ‘B’ and ‘B’ does reciprocate to ‘A’ in the expected way. They hang out with each other for a while; have extended phone talks and messaging over mobile; probably boast upon their so-called success to their friends. This sort of stuff goes on for a while and finally one will back off or they find a dispute, quarrel over it and move opposite. This is what happens almost (almost) always. Probably these are exact descriptions of what happened to Abhinav and many of my friends.

So here comes my conclusion. As I had already proved my point that it is chemical stimulated I had implied that it is unable to resist and I do say that it must be stopped. Confused? The answer is too simple: Just keeping them packed in a corner of your brain for a few days, probably weeks or months (certainly not more than a few months).